Member Profile

Adrian Allotey is the Founder of You Are Not Alone Elder Care, a boutique elder-care practice rooted in compassion, dignity, and human connection. Her work was shaped not only through professional training, but through personal experience, especially her relationship with her grandmother, whose aging journey revealed both the beauty and the deep gaps within our systems of care. Watching someone she loved navigate illness, vulnerability, and moments of quiet fear planted the seed for a life devoted to ensuring no one walks these seasons alone.

As a Certified End-of-Life Doula, Certified Dementia Practitioner, and Elder Care Strategist, Adrian supports individuals and families through aging, dementia, advanced illness, and life transitions with warmth, clarity, and steadiness. She brings a trauma-informed, culturally sensitive approach that honors emotional, spiritual, and relational needs, especially when families feel overwhelmed, uncertain, or unheard.

Through virtual and in-person services, Adrian offers personalized care planning, advocacy, caregiver coaching, education, and end-of-life support. Her work is deeply relational, meeting people where they are, listening without judgment, and helping families feel grounded even in the most difficult moments. She is especially known for supporting solo agers and families navigating complex care systems with compassion and confidence.

At the heart of Adrian’s work is a simple but powerful belief: aging should never mean isolation, and no one should face life’s most tender seasons without care, dignity, and human connection. Through her presence and guidance, she helps individuals feel seen, supported, and reminded that they are never alone.